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  • The quality of our relationships is determined by the state of our nervous system

    ...and the state of our nervous system is determined by our unresolved traumas

    Every unresolved trauma is a distorted lens through which you see the world.
    ​What happens when you clean the glass?

    If I can get to the point where I become my own
    primary attachment figure, every aspect of life will improve

    The nervous system reacts to shame the same way
    ​ the body reacts to a physical attack

    When we embrace a relationship with our subconscious
    ​mind, everything gets better. Everything!

    When we break out of survival mode
    ​we stop attracting dysfunction

​About the Two Mind Method

The Two Mind Method is a powerful approach to emotional regulation and trauma recovery

It begins with this idea: the subconscious mind is a separate entity we can build a relationship with.

By learning to communicate with it through emotions, visualization, and attunement—rather than logic alone—we can rewire deep-seated patterns, heal attachment wounds, and cultivate confidence and resilience. This method helps shift us from survival-driven reactivity to self-trust and empowerment, ultimately making us the primary guiding force in our own lives.

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​About Kirby

My mission is to help people break free from the invisible wounds of the past—so that no person has to suffer the way I once did.

Trauma isn’t just about what happened to us; it’s about the patterns we unknowingly carry forward. The good news? Those patterns can be rewritten. Healing isn’t about erasing the past—it’s about changing how it lives inside us, transforming pain into strength, and creating a future where love and connection come easily. The Two Mind Method is my way of helping you do just that. It is not what happens to you that matters—it’s the meaning you attach to it, and you have the power to rewrite that meaning.

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1-on-1 Sessions

Break free from old patterns and create lasting change. The Two Mind Method has helped countless people rewire their subconscious and transform their lives—now it’s your turn.
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Podcast

Book Kirby for an unforgettable, thought-provoking interview! Dive into the transformative power of making peace with the subconscious mind.

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Keynote Speaking

From Executive Coaching seminars to Trauma Summits, Kirby is ready to bring his unique wisdom and approach to your event and lights the fires of change

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Weekly Workshops

If you are visiting Indonesia and come to the beautiful island of Bali, come to Ubud  to meet Kirby and join him for one of his weekly workshops.

(Every Thursday 12:30-2:00)

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